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Avoid Loving that which is not lawful

I am almost 24 yrs of age and have deep feelings for a sister. I want to be able to free myself from these feelings/inclinations towards her and love only the Rasul (SAW) and Allah and only things that which are lawful for me to love such as immediate family etc. I understand its not unlawful to have feelings for potential spouses but I want to be able to control my feelings until I am married. I have recently purchased islamic CD’s by Sheikh Yaqoubi to increase my spirituality ….